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WORKING WITH CHILDREN

This topic is very close to my heart and fills me with joy.
Children are something wonderful and a gift. They have independent thoughts and feelings and act accordingly, since they do not yet live according to the laws or rules of society.
Each child challenges us and pushes us to our limits to define his own. However, there is no limit that cannot be changed. Every child knows exactly which button to press to make us white-hot. And it does so that we parents or relatives reflect on ourselves more.
The new generation is very empathic and needs authenticity.

What does such a session look like?

At this point I would like to explain my unconventional approach in the session with parents and child:

I look at the behavioral structure and, above all, the essence of the child,

see the child and strengthen the attachments and his self-confidence. However, I do not want to change it, since the child is RIGHT!

I will then show the parents how they can or should deal with their own child,

to achieve the best possible result for the whole family.

In doing so, I also address the trigger points and tensions of the adult and heal them so that dealing with the child in everyday life

can be more relaxed and loving. Thus, the guardians get along more easily with everyday life.

The child is strengthened and encouraged in his development as an individual and can, with his positive attitude and more self-confidence, self-love facing life.

Young people are in their self-discovery, expression and experimentation phase and want to free themselves from constraints and requirements in order to find their own way. Therefore, they are more prone to addictive behavior, higher potential for violence and depression. Among other things, school stress, divorce and pressure to adapt play a major role.

Addiction is always a search for oneself and an escape from everyday life. My concern is to look at the relationship of the child or adolescent with addictive substances such as alcohol, food, sexuality, media (such as gambling addiction, television, mobile phone) and drugs. The recognition of one's own addiction potential and how to deal with it are essential to activate and fully exploit one's self-healing powers and self-determination. I pick up the child where he feels misunderstood and condemned.

"As parents, we have the task of giving our children roots to grow but also wings to fly."
Johann Wolfgang von Goethe

Children are not the problem, they are the SOLUTION


Your children are not your children.

They are the sons and daughters of life's longing for themselves.

They come through you, but not from you,

And although they are with you, they are not yours.

You may give them your love, but not your thoughts,

Because they have their own thoughts.

You may give their bodies a home, but not their souls,

For their souls dwell in the house of tomorrow, which you cannot visit, not even in your dreams.

You may strive to be like them, but do not try to make them like you.

Because life does not run backwards, nor does it linger in the past.

You are the bows from which your children are sent out as living arrows.

The shooter sees the target on the path of infinity,

and He harnesses you with His might, so that his arrows fly fast and far.

Let your bow be directed by the hand of the shooter for joy;

For just as He loves the arrow that flies, so he also loves the bow that is fixed.

Khalil Gibran, Arab poet, 1883-1931

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